Well... writing is all about what we know, right? Or so I was always told. And it's true that we reach into our personal experiences in life to create characters and stories that will feel real and resonate with readers.
But writing has a few lessons of its own to teach. The most important may be that the bigger the challenge, the bigger the opportunity.
Writing a story should never be "easy." If it's easy, something is wrong. The characters have to face challenges and get into extremely difficult situations. As I have learned, when I box in my characters in to the point where I want to